Introduction
1-on-1 meetings are a commonly used management tool. When done well they become the most valuable meeting of the work week - an opportunity to connect, review the past week, and collaboratively come up with a plan to solve the trickiest problems.
However when done poorly they can consume a lot of your time and put team members under unnecessary stress, without delivering any clear benefits.
Most commonly this happens because the meeting lacks structure, does not cover the right topics, or is not held consistently. These problems are linked.
- An unstructured meeting will be inefficient and not allow enough time to get to the most important topics.
- If these topics aren't discussed, what remains is a meandering conversation that both participants get little value from.
- If the participants aren't getting value from a meeting, they will postpone or cancel meetings whenever they can.
- When 1-on-1s aren't conducted at a regular weekly interval, the feedback loop is stretched out, further reducing the value of the meeting.
It becomes a vicious cycle that can result in 1-on-1s being seen as a waste of time by everyone in an organisation.
Easy 1-on-1s prevents this cycle from taking hold by:
- Using structured discussion notes - so that the 1-on-1 discussion is efficient, focused on the most important topics, and systematically overcomes barriers to progress
- Making the 1-on-1 routine easy to follow - so that the routine is "stickier" and more likely to become a productive habit for you and your team
Together, these two principals set up a self-reinforcing cycle. When both participants find their 1-on-1 meeting quick, easy, and valuable (see below), they will make sure it happens each week. Sticking to this consistent weekly routine further increases the speed, ease, and value of the 1-on-1 meeting until it becomes an ingrained habit.
Read on to explore why these two principals are so effective.